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We developed our attitude toward wealthy people from the messages we received while growing up and we all have some bias toward wealth or the lack of it.

Women tend to be almost twice a biased against the wealthy as are men,

believing they are greedy, snobby, selfish, and self-centered. I've heard this

myself when talking with women who praise themselves for being able to survive

on so little and feel superior because of it. Because they view the wealthy with

such disdain, they will never allow themselves to become one of them - they are

reverse snobs.

Your ability to become wealthy depends largely on your view of wealthy people.

If you see them as inherently frivolous, unhappy, and lacking in values, you are

not likely to allow yourself to become one of them. You might console yourself

in your misery by feeling that you are somehow "above" those people. Its false

flattery and a trap that will keep you perpetually mired in debt and lack. Don't

fall for it.

Choose wealth.

You will not become a different person simply because you become wealthy. If you

are stingy now, you will be stingy then. If you are generous now, you will be

generous then ? probably more so. And if you live a life of moral righteousness,

what on earth makes you think that your morals can just be bought with money? If

you are morally upstanding now, you will continue to be so when you are wealthy.

But then, you will also be a more visible model for others to follow.

If you have allowed yourself to be an under-earner and under-achiever, making

far less than you are worth simply because it alleviated any guilt you might

feel for being wealthy, you are also a reverse snob.

You have given yourself permission to feel superior by being poor. This is

simply ridiculous.

God did not design you to be average or content with mediocrity. He blessed

you with the ability and the opportunity to become enormously wealthy so that

you could go out and do more good in the world. He expects you to live up to

the life he gave you. Would you want any less for your own children?

Now go be a millionaire!

About the author:  Ann Vertel,

http://www.MondayMillions.com,

Success Coaching for Women Entrepreneurs!

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